This incident just ended. My future self is recovering from being possessed and Coyolxauhqai is recovering from the death toll. I think he has some priorities over apologizing to the Barge for what happened, just to make everyone feel better. What happened, happened and there's nothing you can do about it. Let him do his job, and stop questioning it. And as for the former? He didn't tell her to go call her family, that was a conscious decision that Coyolxauhqai made on her own.

Though, I have to wonder: do you want an apology from him, or are you just out for blood? Because I guarantee hurting my older self or Coyolxauhqai won't do you any good in the long run.